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      <image:caption>Wise words from Pema… and I would add that Self-Compassion is also integral to Self-Esteem &amp; Self-Worth. Compassion, kindness and unconditional friendship with ourselves (on good days and bad ones) helps us continue moving forward, growing and evolving. (To download image, click here.)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>(yes, we’ve all felt this way on certain days…..)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Have awareness of what doesn’t serve you in your environment and thoughts (conflicts, worries, negative thoughts, etc). Notice when your mind is stuck in the past (regret, over-analyzing) or the future (fear, catastrophizing)… and bring it gently back to the present moment and your breath. Recognize when thoughts come in during an activity - acknowledge (without judgment or analysis) they are there and gently shift them aside until you finish your activity or your short mindful/meditation break. (The grocery list or anxious thought or work worry, etc will still be waiting for you later if you need it back.) Be curious … try to look at moments of the day from a new angle or with new perspectives - let them unfold.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - SHORT GUIDED MEDIATIONS</image:title>
      <image:caption>1. Mindfulness Exercises: Mindfulness Exercises Guided Meditations 2. Tara Brach Guided Meditations: Tara Brach Guided Meditations 3. Jack Kornfield Breathing Meditations for Beginners: Jack Kornfield Breathing Meditation for Beginners -others can be searched for on youtube or various websites and phone apps - take time and sample a few.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Brief, relaxing guided meditations are an active, very helpful way to teach your brain and body to settle and ease. (options below)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Get outside… in your yard, on a trail, to the beach, in the mountains or around your neighborhood. Just be in the outdoors and allow yourself to see, hear, smell and feel the natural world around you. Also.. gardening or working in the yard count, too.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - SLOW DOWN A LITTLE and….</image:title>
      <image:caption>Set an intention for the day to recognize when you’re feeling too rushed or flooded with ‘must do’ thoughts, slow your pace just a little, take a minute to notice what’s going on around you and be curious with how you can shift slightly.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - BODY SCAN PRACTICE</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. Body Scan practicing is similar to PMR… but without the tensing action. It involves simply getting into a relaxed position and focusing gentle and compassionate awareness on one body area, then the next and the next, etc. Body Scan Script here.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - PROGRESSIVE MUSCLE RELAXATION</image:title>
      <image:caption>PMR exercises help you to release tension and stress by activating and then deactivating muscle groups in your body. Tensing and then releasing muscles teaches your body and your brain that it’s able to relax and release/calm after experiencing contractions. (videos below)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - USING MINDFULNESS APPS ON DEVICES</image:title>
      <image:caption>Insight Timer is my personal favorite - lots of guided meditations, mindful music, timers, bells, courses… favorite feature is being able to search for meditations by time (1-5 minute, 5-10 minute, etc) and the styling of the app has a calm feel. Other apps: Calm, Headspace, Chopra, Healthy Minds… and many more. Find your favorite - which one doesn’t matter as long as you use it.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - JOURNALING</image:title>
      <image:caption>This practice deserves its own blog post… and working on that. In the meantime, grab a journal - any journal or notebook or even app on your phone - and write down your thoughts, goals, fears, intentions, notes for your therapist, rants, vents, calming tools, etc. The first (and only) rule of journaling is that there are no rules to journaling. Just start writing.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - 5-4-3-2-1 SENSES SCAN</image:title>
      <image:caption>Similar to the body scan… but with the senses: Step 1: Identify 5 things you can see and really take them in. Step 2: Identify 4 things you can hear (birds, cars, wind, etc) Step 3: Identify 3 things you can feel (the seat under you, the ground, your keyboard, your pen, etc) Step 4: Identify 2 things you can smell (coffee, flowers, wind, etc) Step 5: Identify 1 thing you can taste (if you’re not tasting anything at the moment, think of the last thing you tasted or something you like)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - GENTLE YOGA</image:title>
      <image:caption>Take a gentle yoga class or practice in your home. There are so many types of yoga to explore and find what works best for you. A huge component of yoga is breath awareness - and breath awareness plus being connected to your body lead to mindfulness. Yoga does not have to include handstands nor any kind of movement you don’t feel comfortable with. Gentle and restorative yoga is a great place to start. Develop a yoga / stretching / breathing routine you’re able to practice in your own home daily.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - GUIDES - PROGRESSIVE MUSCLE RELAXATION:</image:title>
      <image:caption>VIDEO OF PMR: Video of PMR guide is here. PDF GUIDE FOR PMR: Written description of PMR is here.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - DO ONE TASK AT A TIME</image:title>
      <image:caption>This one is self-explanatory and simple… but so hard to do within today’s world where being super busy and over-scheduled has been normalized. Challenge yourself daily to try and focus on one task or chore at a time.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - DECLUTTER YOUR SPACE</image:title>
      <image:caption>This does not mean clean your whole house. Just pick a space - desk, closet, dresser, counter, etc - and clean that area. Declutter and maybe even reorganize with fewer items. Clearing your space helps to clear your mind.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Active Mindfulness Practices - PRACTICE GRATITUDE</image:title>
      <image:caption>Keep a gratitude journal…. try to list daily 5-10 things you are grateful for. They can be as simple as breath, the sun, rain, walking - and they can be similar or the same each day. Content isn’t important - being thankful is. Having a set time of day (morning with coffee, nightly before bed, etc) helps to make this practice a routine.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Take a mindful walk: no headphones or music or calls - feel the ground beneath you under each step, see what’s around you (trees, cars, flowers), hear the sounds on your walk, smell the outdoors.. challenge yourself to see how many of each of these sensory cues you can notice.</image:caption>
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